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The Virtual Couch

How to Rebuild Trust w/ Geoff Steurer, LMFT Host of From Crisis to Connection

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

5643 Ratings

🗓️ 31 August 2021

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Geoff Steurer, LMFT talks with Tony about how to rebuild trust in a relationship even after situations that couples believed they would a) never stand for in their marriage and b) believe healing was even possible, like infidelity and betrayal. Geoff is the host of the podcast "From Crisis to Connection" and co-author of the book, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity." You can find Geoff at https://www.geoffsteurer.com (https://www.geoffsteurer.com) or on Instagram: @geoffsteurer or Facebook: @geoffsteurerMFT - Sign up for Geoff's Trust Building Bootcamp by following this link https://www.geoffsteurer.com/a/18461/ZB9Pb8qW (https://www.geoffsteurer.com/a/18461/ZB9Pb8qW) and enter VIRTUALCOUCH15 for 15% off the course. - Tony appeared on two episodes of Geoff's podcast "Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 1) - Tony Overbay - Episode 93" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-steurer/id1290359940?i=1000522608518 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-steurer/id1290359940?i=1000522608518) and "Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 2) - Tony Overbay - Episode 94" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-steurer/id1290359940?i=1000523235363 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-steurer/id1290359940?i=1000523235363) - Sign up today to be the first to know when the next round of The Magnetic Marriage Course will launch http://tonyoverbay.com/magnetic (http://tonyoverbay.com/magnetic)

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, oh, oh, come on and take a seat on the virtual couch.

0:23.0

Hey, everybody.

0:26.2

Welcome to episode 282 of the virtual couch.

0:27.2

I'm your host, Tony Overbay.

0:29.8

I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist, all that good stuff.

0:33.9

And on today's episode, I interview colleague Jeff Stewart.

0:36.5

And Jeff is the host of a podcast as well.

0:38.2

It's called From Crisis to Connection.

0:43.2

He's also a fellow licensed marriage and family therapist. He too has a book on helping people overcome pornography addiction. He does a tremendous amount of work with couples. He helps them through

0:48.0

the complex world of betrayal trauma. And he had me on his show not long ago to talk about

0:53.7

helping people navigate their faith

0:55.9

journeys and faith transitions where one or both spouses start to pull away from or or change

1:01.8

their relationship with or start to really question their faith or their faith community.

1:05.8

And so if you like what you hear with Jeff, I highly recommend that you go over to his podcast from

1:11.8

Crisis to Connection and subscribe and find the two-part episode that Jeff and I did where we covered

1:17.7

all kinds of things, Fowler stages of faith. I talked about my four pillars of a connected

1:21.5

conversation, and we just covered a ton of ground. And if you cannot tell when you start listening

1:26.3

to this episode, it's almost, I love the

1:28.8

word spooky. It's almost spooky the similarities that we have other than the fact that he has

1:32.9

a gorgeous head of hair. I have none. And he has just a very wise looking beard. Mine's a little bit

1:38.8

scruffy. And so he just, he speaks the same language as I do, very strength-based with his approach to therapy.

1:46.8

And so I just really feel like we hit a stride.

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