Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're

going to be talking about reaping the benefits of your problems. Before we get into that, I want to

share with you my free guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky.

This is an eight-page guide with the exact words that you can use in eight different situations

where somebody might be pulling away or acting flaky. So it's very thorough. It's highly shared

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checking out the link in the show notes. Also, if you haven't already, make sure that you get on

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Okay, so let's talk about how to reap the benefits of your problems.

So the first thing to understand is that everybody has one to three life problems currently.

And once they resolve those, they will have one to three life problems. So even once you

resolve a problem in your life, there will be a new one to take its place. And that is just the way

that it goes. I can't think of a single phase of my life where I didn't have one to three life problems and you probably

can't either. And I promise you it's the same for every single other person in the world.

And we're going to talk a little bit more about the comparison later. But the most important thing

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