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How To! with Mike Pesca

How To Put Down Your Phone

How To! with Mike Pesca

Peach Fish Projects

How To, Education

4.32K Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2019

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

How many times have you looked at your phone so far today? Do you feel like you're choosing to look, or automatically craving it when you ought to be enjoying life? In this episode of How To! we get advice from Jia Tolentino, New Yorker writer and author of Trick Mirror, who spends hours on the phone every day for her job. And Cal Newport, author of Digital Minimalism, whose 30-day 'digital declutter' helps us think more deeply, be more present, and control our devices so they don't control us.

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0:00.0

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0:30.6

Well, I just want to say, like, I haven't had a TV since high school. I read a paperbook every

0:36.3

two days. You know, I walk my dog in the park without a phone.

0:39.8

Like, I've been so thoughtful about this for so long. And yet, I am strapped to the internet for

0:46.6

hours and hours a day, 75% out of requirement, 25% out of fun. Or maybe it's the other way around.

0:54.1

Music requirement 25% out of fun. Or maybe it's the other way you're around.

0:59.6

This is how to.

1:02.7

I'm Charles Duhigg, and I have a confession to make.

1:06.4

I look at my phone way too much.

1:10.4

Just this week, in fact, these are all the times that I've looked at my phone when I should not have done it. There was a time that I was conducting an interview and I got momentarily bored and I glanced down at my phone. And then I came home that night and my wife was telling me about her day and I was in the other room and I was checking my email on my phone instead of paying attention to her. And then the next day I had dinner with my kids, but they were fighting with each other and I was just like done with it. and phone instead of paying attention to her. And then the next day, I had dinner with my kids, but they were fighting with each other, and I was just, like, done with it. And so instead of redirecting the conversation back to something pleasant, I glanced at my phone under the table. I didn't even have any email. I think I looked at Instagram. I am not proud of these moments at all. And I bet a lot of you feel the same way. And so this week we've got two experts

1:46.2

to help us solve what is a relatively recent problem in the annals of human problems. How to

1:52.7

put down your phone. First up is one of the sharpest writers about the internet and our digital

1:59.0

lives. My name's Gia Tolentino. I'm a staff writer at The New Yorker and the author of the essay

2:04.7

collection Trick Mirror, which just came out a couple months ago.

2:07.9

How much screen time did you have last week?

2:11.5

I have, let's see.

2:14.6

So I have a daily average of two hours, 42 minutes.

2:17.8

Mm-hmm.

2:18.1

What have you got?

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