If you're willing to suffer at something for a year or two, you win at most things.

If I lose the ability to stand in the darkness, I cannot experience the light at the same time.

In the depths of your darkness, there is a spark.

And the only way to get there is to go deep and go

completely into your fear and into your radical, humiliating honesty. And that's where the

lesson of light is found. And then you can slingshot to the future.

What's up, brother? Good to see you. You too, man. I just spent three days in Disney with my daughter.

Yeah, that made me cringe a little bit three days.

Like, I'll do one day, and then, like, I'm like, I got to come back to this happiest hell on earth.

What I thought you were going to say is, I'm so proud of you for making time for your family.

Because when I met you, I was not doing Disney stuff with my kids.

Bro, three days of Disney, you are like, that's some superhuman father shit.

Well, it's more than that.

You know, when we started, when I reached, when I reached out back to you, you know, you came to me for business.

I came to you for life and fatherhood. Uh, I didn't do any of this kind of stuff. And now I just look for the

opportunities to cultivate memories with my kids. She turned nine, which according to my

calculations is halfway to 18. So we decided to do a halfway trip. That's a trip. This is okay. You're never to be nine again.

And before this, this term came up, man. Success sedation. What? How did how do you just turn a

conversation about Disney into some new ninja term? Success sedation? Because like so many of these guys reaching out,

it's like the money grabs you by the balls.

Oh, you mean me before?

Yeah, yeah.

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