How to politely reject a woman who has a boyfriend but hovers around you.

Well, I was having a conversation with a dude yesterday in a phone session,

and I've done a couple sessions over the years with him.

He had a previous girlfriend that he was engaged to. They had

since broken it off with because she had cheated on him. And then he had another woman that he was

involved with and he stopped dating her for a while because of some things she had going on in

her life. And then she came back, but then she's sleeping with a guy friend of hers, and

she's in a relationship with him. But she's still willing to go out and hang out with this guy

and basically hook up with him. And the thing I was pointing out to him is that you're

tolerating, he wants monogamy, he wants exclusivity, he wants a family,

but yet the women that he's allowing into his life in his inner circle are liars and cheaters.

And he continues to spend time with them.

And it's like whatever you observe, you participate in, whatever you tolerate tolerate you're going to invite more of

into your life and i was pointing that out is like you're hanging out women have no integrity and

so you're attracting other women that have integrity and giving you the opportunity to cheat with them

and the guy's thinking oh i'm going to get into a relationship with this girl it's like if she

cheats on you with or cheats on him with you eventually she's going to do the same thing to you

because that's just how how she rolls is the stat is like 95% of relationships that start from cheating

end in cheating yeah what is the saying if she'll do it for you she'll do it for you, she'll do it to you.

Yep. That's a good one. That actually happened to a friend of mine. I mean, in this case, he's gay. He actually had a boyfriend. His boyfriend cheated on him with this dude. And then that dude cheated on his ex-boyfriend.

So it is, it's definitely true.

But also when it comes to like, back to the question,

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