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He's not always looking at me with this low grade disappointment and disdain.

He looks at me with compassion. He sees the weakness, he sees

my dustness quality. He sees that, he knows that and his response is not what's wrong with you get it together it's not oh there

she is like I'll just kind of put her on the sidelines it's I have compassion for you. My heart moves towards you. I want to help you. I want to come alongside of you. His heart is moved for me in the midst of weakness. Welcome to Family Life Today,

to Family Life Today,

where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson.

You can find us at familylife today.com.

This is family life, today. with us, we've been talking about shame. Here's a question I have for you, and I know you're not

a parent, but shame often feels like it's generational. And so, you know, when we as parents, and we may not even know it, but we were

shamed as children, we grew up.

And so now we're adults, and we carry a level of shame that we may not even be able to identify, but it's there.

Now we have children.

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