How To Not Settle & The Key To Confidence with Victoria Alario
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 6 February 2024
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
Victoria Alario, Confidence Coach and Host of For The Girls podcast, joins the Seeing Other People family today. We discuss what safety looks and feels like in a relationship, how to stop falling for a version of someone you created in your head, and why you need to focus on how you feel about them instead of how they feel about you. Victoria shares her expertise on how to become more confident, why you shouldn’t let someone’s disinterest shake your confidence, and how to develop standards that stop you from settling for less than you deserve. Later, we answer listener questions about self sabotaging and what to do when an ex continues to go to all of your spots.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.0 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the |
| 0:22.1 | dating scene together. All right, you guys, I am so, so, so excited right now. We have such an |
| 0:27.9 | incredible guest, Victoria Alario. Welcome to seeing other people. Hi. Thank you. I'm so excited to |
| 0:34.6 | be here. I'm so excited to have you. I feel like there is so much. First of all, |
| 0:40.1 | okay, you guys, Victoria is the host of For the Girls podcast. She is a confidence coach. She is a content |
| 0:44.6 | creator. She is just incredible. And everybody needs to pause this episode right now. Go and listen to |
| 0:51.0 | For the Girls. Maybe if you want to listen to our episode of For the Girls, absolutely, but also like just go binge for the girls and then come back and listen to this. |
| 0:58.9 | It's seriously so amazing. And I am such a big fan of the content that you put out there and |
| 1:03.8 | just everything you say, I find myself like nodding along. So it's an honor to have you. |
| 1:09.2 | Oh my God. First of all, I'm honored. That was so sweet. |
| 1:12.3 | Thank you so much. And yes, like she just said, we have an episode out already together on my page |
| 1:18.4 | where I interviewed Alana. So you definitely want to hear that one. Yeah. So tell everybody on seeing other |
| 1:25.3 | people who you are beyond just being the host of for the girls and a confidence coach. |
| 1:30.4 | But also talk about that because what does that mean? |
| 1:33.1 | Yes. |
| 1:34.0 | Well, you know, confidence coaching I think was like not. |
| 1:37.0 | I personally never really heard of it. |
| 1:39.2 | But I've heard of everybody, you know, coaches doing all different types of things. |
| 1:43.4 | And so I really got my start |
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