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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

How to Not Care What Others Think | Tom Bilyeu AMA

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

News, Business, News Commentary

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 April 2018

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Tom answers questions from the community. Impact Theory is proudly sponsored by Skillshare. Start learning on Skillshare today at skillshare.com/impact Subscribe to our Channel: http://bit.ly/2HP4F3h PEOPLE MENTIONED Michio Kaku episode: http://bit.ly/2vs2VdL [04:26] Naveen Jain episode: http://bit.ly/2qL3zym [07:38] BOOKS MENTIONED Grit by Angela Duckworth: https://amzn.to/2qHKz3S [03:51] Principles by Ray Dalio: https://amzn.to/2HKAquo [13:16] How to Self-Publish Comics by Josh Blaylock: https://amzn.to/2vwCl3g [20:27] QUESTION TOPICS Tom breaks down how to ignore what other people think of you [00:21] Tom discusses how to be honest with yourself about having grit. [03:21] Tom talks about accessing who you actually are. [05:45] How Tom approaches wanting to help those closest to you. [07:19] Tom discusses the right way to live life - *spoiler alert* there isn't one. [10:02] How Tom approaches transitioning to employee/employer using Principles. [12:12] How Tom gets over the "I am never good enough" mentality. [14:07] Tom talks about which is better: experience or knowledge. [16:36] How Tom approaches beginning a business. [17:53] What Tom is reading to understand the world of comics. [20:17] Tom's advice on determining between super specific and general goals. [21:07] Tom talks about how he takes notes about his ideas. [24:15] What legacy Tom wants to leave the world. [25:50] How Tom determines whether video games are a waste of time. [27:01] Tom discusses how being in competition is not a bad thing. [29:41] What Tom believes is the most important part in judging progress: metrics. [30:59] Tom explains his steps to building a growth mindset in detail. [33:10]

Transcript

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You're listening to the Impact Theory podcast, your source of empowering ideas and actionable

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techniques from the world's highest achievers.

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Join host Tom Billiou, serial entrepreneur and co-founder of the billion dollar brand

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Quest Nutrition on a journey to unlock your potential and realize your vision of success.

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Welcome to Impact Theory.

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Hey everybody, welcome to another episode of AMA, which has asked me anything.

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Today we're not going live, as I'm sure you can tell, but we have compiled a bunch of

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your questions that were sent in over the various social platforms, including the ever-steady

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connect at Impact Theory.com, which you can send your questions in ahead of time if

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ever you want to.

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First question comes from I'm Monnie.

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I'm Maine Najari, one of the two.

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How do I not, how do I not to care?

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How do I not care about what people think about me?

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I know I should not care, but it's really hard for me not to, and it usually affects

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my motivation and productivity.

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Okay, so this is about getting a hold of your emotions.

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So I think all of us have a desire to be looked at favorably, especially by the people

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that we care about, that we respect.

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But you have to, like Victor Frankl said, understand that there is a gap between stimulus

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and response.

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And in that gap, you have the ability to choose something as a way of reacting that isn't

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