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Radical Candor: Communication at Work

How to Navigate a Nepo Baby Bully at Work 6 | 42

Radical Candor: Communication at Work

Radical Candor

Business, Management, Careers

4.7729 Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2024

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Handling workplace bullying when family dynamics are involved.

We need to talk about nepotism and workplace bullying, because WHEW, does it ever mess with our ability to Care Personally and Challenge Directly! Here's the real deal — when family ties eclipse talent, we're not just hurting individual careers. We're poisoning the well of psychological safety that teams need to thrive. How can you tell someone to "bring their whole self to work" when the rules aren't the same for everyone? KIm, Amy, and Jason explain why avoiding these conversations doesn't help anyone. Whether you're dealing with the CEO's daughter who's actually crushing it, or the founder's cousin who's... not so much, you've got to stay rooted in those two key principles: Care Personally AND Challenge Directly.

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Chapters:

(00:00:00) Introduction
Kim, Jason, and Amy introduce the episode’s topic on a listener’s question about workplace nepotism.

(00:02:52) Listener Question: Nepotistic Bully
A listener’s challenging situation involving a CEO's son who is bullying employees.

(00:03:48) Strategies for Workplace Bullying
Documenting incidents and preparing for a conversation with higher-ups.

(00:11:43) Building Solidarity and Seeking Support
Strategies for finding allies to support you and sharing experiences with others.

(00:15:44) Challenges of Confronting Nepotism
The difficulty of escalating issues involving family ties at work.

(00:19:25) Exit Strategies and Self-Protection
Knowing your exit options and protecting your well-being.

(00:31:17) Direct Conversations and Escalation
Preparing for a direct conversation with the bully and their higher-ups.

(00:38:52) The Role and Limitations of HR
When HR should be involved in addressing workplace bullying.

(00:49:06) Seeking External Legal Support
Guidance on consulting a lawyer for severe or unresolved bullying cases.

(00:52:43) Radical Candor Tips
Tips for handling bullying, documenting, building solidarity, and escalating issues.

(00:54:44) Conclusion

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, everybody. Welcome to the Radical Canter Podcast. I'm Kim Scott. I'm Jason Rosoff. And I'm Amy Sandler. And before you listen to this episode, we have a big favor to ask, please do like, follow, and subscribe to the podcast. Wherever you listen, it really does make a difference.

0:22.0

Thank you in advance.

0:24.0

So today we've got a question from a listener about something that we haven't talked about much,

0:28.9

which is nepotism, and more specifically how nepotism affects your ability to practice radical candor.

0:37.2

Before I go into the question, we have kind of the textbook definition of nepotism affects your ability to practice radical candor. Before I go into the question, we have

0:39.5

kind of the textbook definition of nepotism, but Kim, do you want to give your own definition of

0:46.1

nepotism in the workplace? Yeah, I mean, I guess there's two different definitions. Sometimes you have

0:53.7

family business and there's kind of, I guess,

0:57.8

what I would call expected nepotism or legitimate nepotism. And then there's another definition

1:05.4

of nepotism where you give unfair preference or advantages to people who either are in your family

1:15.2

or for whatever reason who are your quote unquote favorites.

1:19.5

I don't know.

1:20.4

But let's get the official definition.

1:23.1

So the deposition.

1:24.8

The nepotition.

1:27.2

The nepotition. The definition the nepotition, the nepotition.

1:29.2

The definition of nepotism.

1:32.2

In the workplace is when someone in a position of power gives jobs, promotions, or other

1:38.3

opportunities to friends or family members instead of based on merit.

1:44.1

Nepotism can be harmful to workplace culture and can lead to a number of negative consequences,

1:49.2

which we'll talk about, but at a high level, this includes things like lowered morale,

1:53.0

decreased productivity, damage trust, increased turnover, and a whole host of other issues.

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