How To Move to a New City
How To! with Mike Pesca
Peach Fish Projects
4.3 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 18 November 2025
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Kerry is ready to leave rural Virginia and move to a walkable, vibrant city. The only problem? She can't decide which walkable, vibrant city is right for her. On this episode, How To!'s Courtney Martin brings on Melody Warnick, author of This Is Where You Belong and If You Could Live Anywhere. Melody asks Kerry what she's really seeking in a new place—and introduces a process that can help make such an important decision.
Next week, we'll talk with Melody about learning to love where you live. Can't wait for part two? Slate Plus members can listen to that episode in their feeds right now!
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone, I'm Susie Weiss, and I've noticed there's just simply not enough podcasts in the world. So I'm launching my own. Let's go. Let's go, baby. Second Thought is a weekly show about pop culture. The stuff everyone's been binging, arguing about, obsessing over. Here's the thing about heated rivalry. I mean, even the most devoted swifties, I think we can agree, not our best work. We'll be hosting thoughtful conversations with culture's most important figures. Talk about genius. |
| 0:22.6 | Talk about generational talent. |
| 0:23.7 | Coming to headphones near you on April 17th with a first guest you won't want to miss. Available wherever you get your podcasts. My kids were like, what do you mean? This is our home. We can't move. And I'm like, of course you can pick up. Like, fuck up, kids. You'll make new friends. Like, let's go. |
| 0:42.0 | Welcome to how to. |
| 0:43.5 | I'm Courtney Martin. |
| 0:45.0 | So much of our lives are tied to a specific location. |
| 0:49.3 | We set down roots based on our jobs, our family, our kids' school, heck, even our favorite restaurants. |
| 0:55.4 | Sometimes we uproot that life in order to create a better one. |
| 0:59.1 | We find a new job. We move somewhere cheaper. |
| 1:01.6 | We relocate to take care of family. |
| 1:04.3 | But other times, the reasons for moving aren't so concrete. |
| 1:08.6 | You know what I'm saying. |
| 1:09.8 | Sometimes you just need a change. It's time for a new |
| 1:12.9 | season, and that season will be seated by a new place, which is where we find today's listener. |
| 1:20.2 | I'm caring. I'm middle-aged, although I don't love that term, and I have lived in the same |
| 1:26.4 | house in rural Virginia for over 20 years, and I'm |
| 1:30.4 | looking for a new place to live and trying to figure out how to do it. Carrie, so we want to just get |
| 1:34.9 | to know a little bit about your life now. Will you paint a bit of a picture of where you live and |
| 1:40.8 | who lives with you and what your daily life is like? I live in a small house on three |
| 1:47.9 | and a half acres, sort of between D.C. and the Blue Ridge Mountains. I raised two boys here. |
| 1:54.2 | The 23-year-old is out in the world. The 19-year-old is still with me in the basement, paying rent, |
| 2:03.6 | but ready to fly whenever I fly. I work in healthcare tech. I travel quite a bit for work. As I travel, I really have realized that I want a city vibe. |
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