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company directors in the UK can apply. Just a heads up that this episode contains a discussion

of sexual assault and sex. It's a fascinating and even hopeful conversation in a lot of ways,

but of course we understand if this episode isn't for you, and we'll look forward to seeing you

same time next week. Someone saying, may I kiss you? What is unsexy about that? It's wonderful.

And it's also a very empowering, I think, litmus test.

Welcome to How To. I'm Amanda Ripley. Today we're going to try to see if we can make sexual

consent sexy. Is that even possible you might ask? Well, we're going to find out.

Can you ask for consent without ruining the mood? Can you continually negotiate boundaries,

even if they change in real time? And finally, can you heal after an experience that you really

didn't consent to? So I think, you know, unfortunately, like a lot of people I've dealt with sexual

assault multiple times in my life. That's our listener, Julia, in New York. Unfortunately,

stories like hers aren't as rare as we'd like them to be. More than one in three women and one

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