Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shaolin Exo podcast. I'm your host Shaolin Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze select relationships and scandals

for lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week.

Back shaligators, this week we are going to be talking about feedback, criticism, tough

love, whatever cutesy name you want to give to the quote unquote, advice you might be

hearing from people in your life. We're going to talk to a shaligator who's been given

some, yeah, alleged tough love by her best friend. And she's really struggling to process

it. And look, summer is here. A lot of you guys have been graduating. And yes, we are

going to do a grad week series on YouTube, maybe even some podcast episodes for that.

Feedback is something that you're probably getting a lot of right now. And it might

be like, ooh, this like post grad advice, hopefully nobody is giving you that stupid

Dr. Seuss book. Oh, the places you'll go. Is this supposed to be helpful? Is this supposed

to be helpful? It is not helpful. But I digress. No matter where you are, whether you are

just embarking in your career, maybe you're thinking about having a child, maybe you're

not thinking about having a child, maybe you're just living your life, trying to find

true love or a career that works or just not doing any one of those things. Just keep

on keeping on. And people come at you with feedback. How do you know what to accept and

what to reject? And how can you process it in a better way? I'm going to break it all

down. But before we do, who wants to come with me to Paris? Yes, shaligators, we are going

to Paris on our new shaligator getaway next April. It's a ways away. But that gives us,

you know, some time to get ready. And, you know, I'm always curious about how long in advance

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