Welcome to the Girl on Top Shalyn XO podcast.

I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze

celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

Well, back Shalogators. This week, we are going to be talking about feedback,

criticism, tough love, whatever cutesy name you want to give to the quote-unquote advice

you might be hearing from people in your life.

We're going to talk to a Shaligator who's been given some, yeah, alleged tough love by her best friend.

And she's really struggling to process it.

And look, Summer is here.

A lot of you guys have been graduating.

And yes, we are going to do a grad week series on YouTube, maybe even some podcast episodes for that.

Feedback is something that you're probably getting a lot of right now. And it might be like,

ooh, this like post-grad advice. Hopefully nobody has given you that stupid Dr. Seuss book,

oh, the places you'll go. Is this supposed to be helpful? Is this supposed to be helpful?

It is not helpful. But I digress. No matter where you are,

whether you are just embarking in your career, maybe you're thinking about having a child,

maybe you're not thinking about having a child, maybe you're just living your life,

trying to find true love or a career that works, or just not doing any one of those things.

Just keep on, keeping on. And people come at you with feedback.

How do you know what to accept and what to reject? And how can you process it in a better way?

I'm going to break it all down. But before we do, who wants to come with me to Paris?

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