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Hidden Brain

How To Make Amends

Hidden Brain

Hidden Brain Media

Arts, Science, Performing Arts, Social Sciences

4.640.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

When James and Donovan first met, they knew little about each other, except that Donovan had stolen James' bike. Donovan got caught, and spent a month in jail. It was a story with a happy ending, as far as James was concerned. But then he found out, nearly a decade later, what happened to Donovan after his conviction. This week on the show, we look at the unexpected aftermath of a crime, and what happens when adversaries meet in conversation instead of a courtroom.

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Hidden Brain.

0:02.6

I'm Shankar Vedantam.

0:05.3

All of us form quick impressions of the strangers we meet.

0:09.8

We do this automatically and unconsciously and we do this all the time.

0:15.6

We categorize people into nice and not so nice, friendly and unhelpful.

0:22.7

Much of the time these quick conclusions are partly true and partly exaggerated.

0:28.6

And they are caricatures of people we barely know.

0:34.1

Our tendency to draw quick conclusions is especially powerful when the strangers we encounter do

0:40.3

something to hurt us.

0:43.2

Think about the last time someone stepped on your foot as you were leaving a crowded theater

0:48.0

or the time a motorist nearly hit you as you were crossing a pedestrian intersection

0:54.2

or when someone stole something from you.

0:57.9

At such times we can't help but imagine how terrible this person must be when they are

1:02.6

not stepping on our toes or being a reckless driver or being a thief.

1:13.0

Today on the program an unusual story about two strangers who first met as adversaries.

1:19.8

Like all of us they came to quick conclusions about each other.

1:23.7

But then nearly a decade later each man had the opportunity to pull the curtain back

1:30.0

on the other's life.

1:34.1

How the simple act of conversation can transform the way we see each other.

1:39.3

This week on Hidden Brain.

1:53.0

James Carter still remembers the bike.

1:55.9

It was a Trek 7.3 FX in blue with Fender's a toe hitch and a bike bump and a water bottle

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