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Hey, it's Mariel. I think we all understand that our friendships are going to morph somewhat throughout our lives.

Like if you and a friend met in the sandbox at age three, you're not expecting to sit around building sandcastles every time you hang out.

Though, if you do, do that.

Kudos.

That actually sounds super fun.

There are few changes as dramatic, though, as when one friend becomes a parent.

Suddenly, they can't make plans as often. They're experiencing a whole new set of stresses,

...