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Life Kit

How to maintain your friendships after kids

Life Kit

NPR

Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Education, Business

4.33.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 May 2025

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

It can be tough to navigate adult friendships when kids come into the picture. Parents assume their child-free buds don't want to hang out with them, and vice versa. To overcome this divide, reporter Emily Siner speaks with three experts about what makes friendships work across parenting stages. So whether you have kids, want kids, have friends with kids, or know anyone who could have kids someday, we've got you covered.

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And we are proud to do this work for you and with you. You're listening to Life Kit from NPR. Hey, it's Mariel. I think we all understand that our

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friendships are going to morph somewhat throughout our lives. Like if you and a friend met in the

1:39.0

sandbox at age three, you're not expecting to sit around building sandcastles every time you hang out.

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Though, if you do, do that.

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Kudos, that actually sounds super fun.

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There are few changes as dramatic, though, as when one friend becomes a parent.

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Suddenly, they can't make plans as often.

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They're experiencing a whole new set of stresses, and they may only want to talk about

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their baby. For the child free, it can feel like their friend with kids just disappeared into

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