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Welcome to the Brian DeFini Show, where we explore the mindsets, motivation and methodologies of success.

I'm the producer David Lally, and today we'll hear the last episode in our six-part series

on How to Love and Be Loved. In this episode, Brian and Joe Irman look at how to find your

transcendent cause, which Joe defines as making a difference in life beyond self-interest.

You'll learn how to discover your unique purpose and how you can live a life without regret,

one that makes a lasting impact on the people you care about.

Now here's Brian and Joe with the conclusion of How to Love and Be Loved.

So we come now to the grand climax of this entire series. We've learned how to understand ourselves.

We've come to grips with the three wounds of love. We've learned how to develop empathy for

ourselves and for others, and come in contact with the process of healing and ultimately the

purpose of healing. And then we've analyzed how to experience full relationships in our lives.

And now our opportunity is to find our transcendent cause, to ultimately turn the wounds of the past

into our purpose for the future. Joe, share with us if you will how we can begin the process

of finding our transcendent cause and ultimately finding our purpose and our passion.

Yeah, let me define transcendent cause. Transcendent cause means going through this life

invested and involved in the world beyond your own personal goals wants and ambitions.

It's really trying to look back over at the end of your life knowing that you made a difference

in this world. Right. All of us have been put here for some kind of transcendent purpose.

It's the ground rent that you paid for being a human being on this earth. All of us have some kind

of responsibility at the end of our lives to be able to look back over and we know that we made a

difference that the world is a little better place because we've lived because we've loved and

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