All right, welcome back.

We are to be talking about how to lead in a relationship part two.

There is a part one to this that you can check out on the channel if you haven't already.

Tons of people have loved that video.

So go and check it out. Let's dive into part two.

How do you lead in your relationship as a man? First off, I can't even believe I have to say this,

but it's shocking to me how controversial this is for some people. There's this notion that, you know, to lead in a relationship as a man is somehow

misogynistic and it's not what women want. And generally, like, where I want to begin is

for you as a guy, just like, I would say just generally ignore the people that say that they

don't want you to lead in a relationship. What most women I've found are actually saying is that they don't want you to lead in a relationship. What most women

are I've found are actually saying is that they don't want to be treated like a servant

in a relationship. They don't want to be treated as less than in a relationship. They don't want

to be looked down on. And all that's true. When I'm talking about leading in a relationship,

I'm not talking like you're the boss and they have to do what you say.

We're not talking about, you know, you being the like executive manager and she's this servant that has to go along with things.

That's not what we're talking about.

Leadership, as I defined it in the first video, is a process of influence where one or many people are influenced towards a

common goal or task. Now, for me, leadership is reciprocal. Leadership is reciprocal. If you are

trying to lead in a non-reciprocal manner, meaning you're not letting yourself be influenced in

return by your employees, by your

partner, by your girlfriend, your wife, whoever it is that you are leading and having some

leadership with, that is not healthy, effective leadership. That is tyrannical. It's trying to

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