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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

How To Know If My Abusive Husband Is Changing – Claire’s Story

Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Education, Sexuality, Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.61.4K Ratings

🗓️ 8 November 2022

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Your husband says he wants to change and you believe him. Learn how to safely observe if he's truly changing or if it's just more grooming and gaslighting.

Transcript

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0:15.9

Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, BTR.org. I'm Anne. I'm sure you remember what it was like when you were searching for help, maybe for your husband, hoping to find the right program or therapist. That's why I started podcasting. I supported my husband through seven years of pornography addiction recovery and not one therapist during that time told me I was experiencing

0:21.7

emotional and psychological abuse and sexual coercion.

0:25.0

I didn't want any other woman on the planet to be in the dark.

0:29.0

If you're like the majority of my listeners, you're experiencing the type of abuse that's

0:33.6

invisible and difficult to wrap your head around. Your husband is using porn or

0:37.5

having affairs or lying to you and you're getting the same bad advice about how to

0:41.8

improve communication or your relationship.

0:44.6

If you need support from women who totally understand, check out our daily group session schedule

0:49.6

at BTR.org slash group.

0:51.8

We'd love to see you in a session today.

0:54.0

One simple anonymous way to help spread the word

0:57.0

is to click, follow, or subscribe to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery

1:00.0

Podcast on your favorite podcasting app. While you're there every five-star rating

1:05.0

helps make this podcast more visible and will help save other women from

1:08.7

getting the wrong kind of help like a couple program that will make this type of abuse worse.

1:14.0

For those of you who follow or subscribe to this podcast, thank you so much.

1:18.0

Your support means so much to me.

1:20.0

Claire, who is a member of our community, is back with us on today's episode. If you did not

1:26.8

listen to last week, listen to that first so you know what's going on and then join us here.

1:32.8

We're going to just jump right back in.

1:35.0

So you attended your Church's Addiction Recovery Program,

1:38.7

which is a program for wives of porn addicts

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