How to Know if He’s Serious About Marrying You in 2025
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
4.8 • 851 Ratings
🗓️ 6 January 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
Are you struggling to find the love of your life?
Thousands of Muslim women have used this proven blueprint, backed by 25 years of expertise, to find their compatible spouse - following the Quran and Sunnah.
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In this episode, the host of Mindful Muslimah discusses the challenges women face when trying to figure out if someone is serious about marriage. With her warm and relatable style, she shares real-life stories and straightforward advice to help women avoid wasting time in uncertain relationships. From understanding red flags like mixed signals and lack of action to recognizing the importance of having clear boundaries, this episode is packed with practical approaches rooted in Islamic principles.
Whether you’re trying to figure out the ups and downs of modern courtship or just wondering if you’re on the right track, this episode offers a mix of wisdom and encouragement. You’ll learn how to trust your instincts, set non-negotiables, and focus on what truly matters for a healthy and blessed relationship. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure about someone’s intentions, this conversation is exactly what you need.
🌟Expect to Learn
- How to recognize if someone is genuinely serious about marriage.
- Red flags to watch for, like unclear intentions or mismatched actions and words.
- Why involving a wali and family early on is crucial in Islamic courtship.
- How to set clear boundaries and timelines in relationships.
- The dangers of compromising your values or ignoring your instincts.
- Practical tips for having tough but necessary conversations with a potential spouse.
- Steps to reconnect with Allah and seek clarity through Istikhara and consultation.
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| 0:00.0 | One of the biggest issues I see with sisters who are looking for a spouse is they feel stuck and overwhelmed. |
| 0:04.5 | I'm unsure of how to find the right person while sticking to their Islamic principles. |
| 0:08.0 | I mean, maybe you feel like you're fighting off your parents and you're struggling to just get married in 2025 with a modern yet still Islamic approach. |
| 0:15.6 | With hundreds of women like you and I've distilled everything I've done into a spouse seeking blueprint. |
| 0:21.2 | Totally free. |
| 0:22.2 | Just click the link in the show notes or visit us over on our website. |
| 0:25.4 | Let's start creating the marriage you deserve, inshallah. |
| 0:27.7 | A man that wants to marry you, he doesn't just say I want to marry you. |
| 0:30.4 | He actually does something about it. |
| 0:32.1 | He takes actions. |
| 0:33.5 | If he has words that he keeps telling you, and they sound sweet and they sound right and they sound everything you want to hear, but his words do not match them. That is a red flag. |
| 0:43.3 | Another sign is, is he able to take care of you if you did move forward? Is he unemployed but trying |
| 0:49.7 | to look for marriage right now and not actually have a job that could sustain a home. Is he working on a |
| 0:55.5 | project or being an entrepreneur or he's trying to be a hustler and trying to like figure |
| 0:59.6 | something out? But didn't actually have anything solid enough to have a home for you. He's not ready. |
| 1:05.1 | Or is he financially set, but so financially set that that's all he has going for him. And the adab and the |
| 1:11.3 | Akhlaq, like the actual Islamic principles, like he doesn't actually pray. Like, he has one |
| 1:15.6 | part of the package, but the other one's missing. He's not a good one for you either. |
| 1:20.4 | Welcome to the mindful Muslim speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best |
| 1:24.4 | version of yourself that you're always meant to be. I'm your host, mindful Muslim mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 plus years |
| 1:32.6 | and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide. Now I'm excited to share a ton of solutions |
| 1:37.8 | to your problems on love, relationships, life balance, reconnecting with a less dependent with |
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