How To Keep The Spark Alive ft. Vanessa and Xander Marin

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 May 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Vanessa and Xander Marin. We talk about how to keep the sexual spark alive, how to initiate properly, the right way to turn your partner down, how to ask for exactly what you want, telling your partner you don’t like something sexually, positive reinforcement, the 5 conversations every couple needs to increase intimacy and connection, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss what you can change about your SO, going through a partner’s phone, and feeling strange post engagement.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.5	Hey guys, welcome back to We Minute At Me. I'm so excited for today's episode with Vanessa and
0:11.5	Xander. I love having couples on, especially couples who are not afraid to talk about subjects
0:17.0	like sex. So I think that you're really going to enjoy it. And before we get into that, we're going
0:22.0	to talk about two topics that have just been top of mind. Maybe we'll talk about three, because I'd
0:28.1	asked you, you know, what do you want to hear about? And this came up a lot also to quick
0:33.0	announcements. One, the sound in this episode is mercury was retrograde when we recorded it. And
0:40.2	it's just like not that great as it usually is. So that's my fault, not my producers. And it's
0:47.2	obviously the planets fault, of course. And my other announcement is that the tour is around
0:53.6	the corner. I'm going to be in New York City in DC in Boston and Nashville at the end of July.
1:00.8	So go to We Minute At Me.com slash events to get your tickets. And follow us on YouTube, because
1:09.2	we're now posting pretty much all the content that we're posting on the podcast, but the video
1:14.3	version. So go to We Minute At Me on YouTube and smash that subscribe button. And then also, if you
1:21.2	haven't left a review yet and you're enjoying the podcast, please do so by searching We Minute At Me
1:27.5	in the podcast app and scrolling to the bottom and hopefully reviewing
1:33.7	positively and giving five stars if you are called to do so. Okay, so the first thing we're going to
1:39.6	talk about is engagement. I had an episode coming out with someone that we will no longer be airing,
1:48.0	but we had kind of talked about and maybe I'll ask her if I can just post this one clip because it
1:54.2	is very meaningful. And I feel like people need to hear it. People can engage and they think that
2:00.0	like it is fireworks and you were so happy. It's like weirdly a stressful thing. And not for everyone,
2:08.0	right? Like some people are so excited. And that's all that it is. And I was really excited. But I
2:15.8	also was like, I wouldn't say fight or fight, but like I remember like not being able to eat my
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