How to Influence People (And, Why You Should) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.8 • 9K Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Is influence different from manipulation, or just a different shade? In this episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the art of building true influence, essential for leaders in any realm—family, business, or community. Through ten practical strategies grounded in integrity, Ryan explores how influence can elevate our interactions by aligning personal goals with broader values, creating outcomes that benefit everyone involved.

Influence isn’t just for the workplace; it’s woven into daily life, from guiding your kids to closing deals. With relatable examples—from Donald Trump’s connection with blue-collar voters to Kamala Harris’s attempts at relatability—Ryan uncovers the power of genuine connection, honesty, and setting clear boundaries. By leading with care and maintaining consistency, we can build trust-filled relationships that last.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Building Influence With Integrity
(04:38) The Power of Honesty and Influence
(14:36) Solving Problems Through Connection
(19:31) Connecting Through Relatability
(23:08) Firm and Fair Approach in Relationships
(33:34) Be a Man of Your Word
(37:45) Consistency Builds Trust

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0:00.0	So I pride myself on being a valuable, valuable connector.
0:04.0	If a friend comes to me and says, hey man, like,
0:07.0	I just hate taking care of the yard.
0:09.0	It just takes so much time out of my day.
0:11.0	And I know another friend who happens to be a landscaper,
0:14.0	and then I connect my friend who's a landscaper
0:16.0	with my friend who needs landscaping.
0:18.0	Now it's a double win.
0:20.0	I win with a friend who needs landscaping, and I's a double win. I win with a friend who needs landscaping,
0:21.8	and I win with a friend who is a landscaper.
0:24.3	But being a connector and leveraging those connections
0:26.8	to solve problems is huge.
0:31.1	You're a man of action.
0:32.5	You live life to the fullest.
0:33.9	Embrace your fears and boldly chart your own path.
0:36.9	When life knocks you down,
0:38.2	you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged,
0:44.4	resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end
0:51.0	of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.
0:56.6	Men, influence is not something that we should shy away from. All too often, many people
1:01.6	tend to look at influence and conflate it with manipulation, and they are not one and the same.
1:07.8	Influence is a matter of inspiring others to do the right thing through honesty,
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