This is where a lot of people get stuck.

They're trying to convince themselves intellectually that they deserve better, but their subconscious

is still running the opposite program.

If you want to have a fighting chance at reprogramming your deserving power, you have

to never settle. Hey, you deserve better. Hell, you deserve the best. You've heard that before, right? Maybe you've said it to yourself, or maybe to a friend who's in a bad relationship or to someone who's stuck in a dead end job. And on the surface, it makes perfect sense. Why would you settle for less than what you feel you deserve?

Especially in today's world where you can just go online at any moment and you can see people who

aren't nearly as talented or who don't work nearly as hard or who don't seem nearly as deserving

as you. Yet, they're living these incredible lives. They've got the dream job. They've got the

perfect partner. They've got the vacation, the wealth. So naturally, you start to think to

yourself, if they have it, why don't I have it? And that's when the entitlement starts to

creep in. We start telling ourselves that because we've worked hard,

because we've suffered, because we've done all of the right things, doesn't life owe us

something in return? And we hear it everywhere, messages reinforcing the idea that we're worthy of

more. The self-help industry says that we should manifest

abundance. Advertisements promise us that fulfillment is just one purchase, one experience,

one upgrade away. And don't get me started on social media, which makes it look like

everybody else is already living the life that we should have. So we start chasing.

We try to position ourselves for what we think we deserve. We say the affirmations. We visualize.

We repeat. I deserve happiness. I deserve love, success, peace. But here's where the problem

starts. Despite all of the affirmations and all of the

positive self-talk and all of the belief in what we should have, we still don't have it. So what's

missing? Here's the truth that most people don't want to hear. Saying you deserve something and

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