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That's audible.com slash Wondery UK. Hello and welcome to The Upgrade, the podcast from the team of LifeHacker, where we help you improve your life one week at a time.

I'm Alice Bradley, Deputy Editor of LifeHacker. Melissa Kirsch is out this week.

Joining me in the studio is producer Levi Sharp. Hey Levi. It is I, producer Levi Sharp.

Today we're talking about sex, specifically having it. Even more specifically, having great sex when you're in a long-term relationship.

Here to share with us all his secrets is Stephen Snyder.

Stephen is a sex and couples therapist and the author of Love Worth Making,

how to have ridiculously great sex in a long-lasting relationship.

Hi, Steve. Thanks so much for being here.

Oh, you're welcome. It's a pleasure.

What is it like to be a sex therapist? Now, I think, when I think about this job, I think, okay,

one, either potentially you'd be very depressed all the time because you're hearing really sad

stories, or two, even personally, like, do you feel like there's a lot of pressure

...