How to Have A Great Sex Life With Your Partner | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

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🗓️ 11 January 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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[Original air date: 1-7-22]. Let’s talk about sex! Believe it or not, there are couples that have been together for years and may even have children that are not comfortable with conversations about sex. Having open communication with about your sex life, desires and fantasies together is so important to the health and longevity of your sex life. Knowing when and how to find the right moment, the right questions and the right approach will not only improve your sex life, it can positively impact the health of your relationship and lives together. Let’s take a deep dive into 3 tips Tom and Lisa are sharing to make your sex life over the top great together. Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships. QUOTES: “Because the thing is to trick ourselves into thinking we're always giving our partners exactly what they need all the freakin time is absolutely putting blinders on.” Lisa Bilyeu [8:10] “One should want to guide their partner, but guide them to success.” Tom Bilyeu [13:42] “If you have it as this is the person I love most in the world, and I'm guiding them to a treasure, and I know that they're also going to guide me to a treasure, then it becomes beautiful.” Tom Bilyeu [15:31] “If you don't have sex beforehand, if you don't discuss it, especially, then you may end up in a relationship with someone that is that may be the antithesis of what sexually turns you on.” Lisa Bilyeu [33:43] “Communication isn’t about what you say, it's about what the other person hears.” Tom Bilyeu [37:16] SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://audible.com/woi or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://zocdoc.com/lisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://linkedin.com/lisa. That’s https://linkedin.com/lisa to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://betterhelp.com/women today to get 10% off your first month. Take charge of your fitness and go to https://tryfuture.co/WOI to get 50% off your first month. Let Aura handle your online safety by going to https://aura.com/WOI and start your free 2-week trial. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:56.8	What does the right moment look like?
1:02.9	It looks like somebody who is emotionally receptive, where there's real warmth between you.
1:07.3	Making sure that your sex life is high functioning is so important.
1:13.5	If you don't have sex beforehand, especially if you don't discuss it, then you may end up in a relationship with someone that is that may be the antithesis of what sexually
1:18.6	turns you want.
1:46.4	Okay, so, well, I will speak for myself. As with all things, direct, simple, and supportive is the right way to go about it, because you want to talk about you can put someone on edge real fast with this topic. So you need to be clear. You want to speak up for what you want. There's no way to get the life that you want unless
1:52.0	you're willing to articulate it, which actually, by the way, the one thing I will say in sex education
1:57.6	class that they taught us in Tacoma, Washington, if you're not ready to talk to your partner about sex, you're not ready to have sex.
2:04.1	That's actually a really good advice.
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