How To Handle Your Demons | Richard Schwartz
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🗓️ 31 March 2025
⏱️ 74 minutes
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Summary
Make peace with the difficult parts of your personality.
Dr. Richard Schwartz is a contemporary psychotherapist, PhD in marriage and family therapy. He founded the Internal Family Systems Model (IFS) therapy system and has authored many books, most recently: The Internal Family Systems Workbook.
In this episode we talk about:
- What Internal Family Systems (IFS) is
- The relationship between buddhism and IFS
- How to make peace with our parts without a therapist in the room
- Dan volunteers as a guinea pig to show what it's like to work with your parts
- The definition of love
- The link between IFS and psychedelics
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| 0:00.0 | It's the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris. |
| 0:18.8 | Hello, everybody. How we doing? I have long been fascinated by the notion of demons, the hobgoblins that we all have knocking around in our heads, neurotic patterns that recur in often toxic and destructive ways. I actually went so far as to look into the history of this notion. It turns out it's quite ancient. |
| 0:38.8 | The idea that we have an interior cast of characters, a fractious intracranial committee. |
| 0:44.7 | It can be found in both ancient spirituality and also in modern psychology. |
| 0:49.4 | The Hindus referred to our mental dramatist persona as avatars. The Greeks called them daimans, so did the Christians, |
| 0:57.5 | although with a different spelling. Fast forward several centuries, and you have Sigmund Freud, |
| 1:01.9 | the father of modern psychology, who divided the psyche into the id, the ego, and the super ego. |
| 1:07.0 | Even more recently, contemporary psychologists often now embrace the so-called modular |
| 1:13.0 | model of mind, which holds that we have all of these various modes, anger, jealousy, generosity, |
| 1:19.3 | etc., that compete for salience in our consciousness, like tiles in a magic eight ball. |
| 1:26.0 | Okay, so this is clearly an idea that has stood the test of time, but what do you do about it? |
| 1:30.7 | How do you deal with your demons? |
| 1:33.5 | In recent years, I have become quite interested in something called internal family systems or IFS. |
| 1:39.4 | It's a kind of psychotherapy where you give your inner characters, which IFS people called parts. |
| 1:47.0 | So you give your parts names and then you create relationships with them. |
| 1:51.7 | For me, this concept has been massively helpful. |
| 1:54.8 | And so today on the show, we've got the guy who invented IFS, Richard Schwartz or Dick Schwartz. |
| 2:00.2 | He's got a new book out called the Internal Family |
| 2:02.5 | Systems Workbook, which is designed to help anybody do this therapy, even if you don't have |
| 2:07.8 | access to a trained IFS therapist. In this conversation, we talk about what exactly IFS is, the |
| 2:14.3 | relationship between Buddhism and IFS, how to make peace with your parts, even without a therapist in the room. |
| 2:21.5 | I then volunteer as a guinea pig to show what it's like to work with your parts, which is a little bit awkward, but I'm doing it for you because I love you. |
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