How to handle the doubters, haters and naysayers

Sports Motivation Podcast

Niyi Sobo

Soccer, Football, Basketball, Crossfit, Mindset, Sports, Psychology, Dominate, Business

4.8 • 755 Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2017

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Sometimes people can’t handle seeing you succeed. They may try to dull your shine with negative remarks that can potentially throw you off your game. The question is… how do you handle these doubters, haters, and naysayers? Today’s episode is a specific condition of the mindset. Conquer this, and you’re unstoppable. You ready??

Episode 154 Time Stamps:

(1:20) Stop deluding yourself. APPLY Yourself.

(5:51) Have you dealt with these people?

(7:30) BOOK: Hendrie Weisinger's, “Performing Under Pressure”

(8:30) I only care to a certain degree (about others opinions)

(10:17) BOOK: Gary Keller & Jay Papasan's, “The One Thing”

(11:00) Your MINDSET determines your approach

(11:36) My mindset, Pt. 1: Nobody cares too much about what you’re doing

(12:20) My mindset, Pt. 2: They actually don’t know what they’re doing

(13:35) My mindset, Pt. 3: There’s always a message in the hate/doubt, and it’s my job to find this out.

(15:25) My mindset, Pt. 4: I decide what it means.

(16:02) My mindset, Pt. 5: If I doubt myself, that’s usually when I’m most influenced

(17:00) My mindset, Pt. 6: Most people don’t think big.

(19:48) Mistakes to avoid, Pt. 1: Don’t try to force someone into believing your dreams and goals more than you.

(21:41) Mistakes to avoid, Pt. 2: Avoid self-pity

(22:09) Mistakes to avoid, Pt. 3: Don’t allow hate/doubt to influence your desires or goals

(23:20) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 1: Thank God for the objections.

(24:04) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 2: Review your master plans, desires, and goals.

(25:36) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 2.5: Look for “holes” in your plans.

(26:17) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 3: Find people who can help strengthen your vision.

(27:47) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 4: Get your plans VERIFIED.

(28:31) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 5: Check yourself. Are you a hater?

(29:08) Things that you MUST do, Pt. 6: Keep grinding.

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0:00.0	If you try to get right, then you listen to my dad.
0:03.0	He's a beast.
0:06.0	And if you don't want to listen to him, okay, okay, you don't want to get successful.
0:11.0	If you ain't trying to dominate, man, they go listen to something else.
0:16.0	Welcome, athletes, top performers, and all those looking to gain that killer instinct, that edge you need
0:22.4	to dominate in any environment. This is the Sports Motivation podcast, and I'm your host,
0:28.1	Nees Showbo. I play ball and succeeded at the highest levels, and I'm now committed to showing
0:34.3	you how you can accomplish the ambitious goals and visions that you have.
0:39.3	This podcast is designed to teach you a high-level strategy, not just fluff and hype.
0:44.7	This will cut to the core if you let it. And by taking action on the practical and next-level
0:50.1	advice I share, you will see results. Expect them.
0:55.5	Expect to be more confident.
0:57.2	Expect to be more focused.
0:59.1	Expect to be more decisive.
1:01.1	And expect to be more fearless.
1:04.9	Expect to become the leader your vision needs you to become.
1:06.3	So listen up.
1:07.1	Take notes.
1:08.7	Let's get to it. It's the Sports Motivation Podcast.
1:23.6	It's me, Nees Showbo.
1:26.6	Real quick before we get into it, I've been meeting a lot of people who listen to this podcast.
1:32.3	A lot of different ways. I see people out and about. I got friends, family, coaching calls. Maybe some of you might have even tried to sign up for my coaching program.
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