How to Handle Criticism Without Losing Yourself: Cultivating Resilience in a Loud World

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Religion & Spirituality, Philosophy, Society & Culture

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 30 May 2017

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

What happens when criticism becomes a regular part of your personal, professional, or spiritual journey? Mike Erre shares raw, hilarious, and honest insights from years of being on the receiving end of all types of feedback—from drive-by insults to thoughtful, transformative critiques. Whether it's angry emails, anonymous letters, vague threats cloaked in "concern," or painfully awkward encounters, Mike breaks down the different types of criticism and how to respond with wisdom, humility, and strength.

This solo episode offers a practical and candid framework for examining feedback, gauging its value, and protecting your mental and emotional health in the process. Learn how to be a non-reactive presence, why not every critic deserves a response, and how criticism—when rightly received—can be a gift that cultivates deep growth.

Key Takeaways: • "Who is this from?" – Why discerning the source of criticism is the first essential filter. • Specific vs. General Feedback – How to recognize the difference and why specificity leads to growth. • Responding with Non-Reactivity – Strategies to avoid anger, appeasement, or over-explaining when criticized. • The Power of Trusted Voices – Why you should surround yourself with safe, truth-telling people before the noise starts. • The Role of Humor and Boundaries – How levity and clear lines keep criticism from becoming toxic.

Resources Mentioned: • Emotionally Healthy Church by Pete Scazzero – on being a nonreactive presence • Kenton Beshore (former pastor at Mariners Church) – influential feedback conversation • Patreon Support for Vox – https://www.patreon.com/voxology

Call to Action: Got feedback of your own? Mike says—bring it on (within reason)! Let us know what resonates with you or what you've learned about handling critique in your own life. And as always, subscribe, leave a review, and follow Voxology Podcast on social media to stay part of the growing conversation.

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Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford https://www.timothyjohnstafford.com/ Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy

As always, we encourage and would love discussion as we pursue. Feel free to email in questions to hello@voxpodcast.com, and to engage the conversation on Facebook and Instagram.

We're on YouTube (if you're into that kinda thing): VOXOLOGY TV.

Our Merch Store! ETSY

Learn more about the Voxology Podcast

Subscribe on iTunes or Spotify

Support the Voxology Podcast on Patreon

The Voxology Spotify channel can be found here: Voxology Radio

Follow Mike on Twitter: www.twitter.com/mikeerre

Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford

Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy

Transcript

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0:00.0	Hi, everybody, Mike Erie here, live from the Fox World headquarters, Brea, California.
0:18.6	I'm going solo today.
0:24.1	Andy Bear, and people have been asking for this for a long time, just kind of a solo mic episode, just to hear what kind of high
0:29.2	intelligence sounds like uninterrupted. So I'm very excited about that. Andy Bear had a child.
0:36.7	He has three children now, a papa of three, and he's love and life with three
0:41.2	kids under the age of five at home right now. Not really. But Shepard, his son, Shepard Andrew Laura,
0:49.0	seven-pounder was born last Saturday night. We're recording this on a Thursday. So welcome to the world.
0:55.3	Shepherd and Andy and his wife, Mercedes, are all doing well.
0:59.9	But today, I get it all by myself.
1:02.4	So we're going to talk about how state football, Pearl Jam,
1:06.5	why coffee is evil and why hockey isn't a real sport.
1:09.1	No, we're not going to talk about that.
1:11.1	Just want to remind you that you can find us on a Voxpodcast.com or SoundCloud or iTunes.
1:21.3	We also have a church that is birth out of the podcast that meets at El Dorado High School.
1:26.4	If you live in North Orange County and don't have a community,
1:30.8	you can find that online at voxoc.com.
1:36.4	And we put the teachings and stuff online as well if you want to find that out.
1:40.7	And then lastly, if you're interested in supporting us,
1:43.4	we have a very vibrant
1:44.7	group of folks who support us on Patreon. And you can join them if you would like at
1:52.5	Patreon.com and then type in Mike Erie or Vox podcast. Now, today what I want to do is I've been
2:00.1	saving this one. I want to do is I've been saving this one.
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