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How to give feedback that lands | Dr Renee St Jacques

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πŸ—“οΈ 15 May 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Most managers give feedback. Few give feedback that actually works. Drawing on her background in psychology and executive coaching, Renee St Jacques breaks down what so many well-intentioned leaders get wrong β€” and introduces a three-part framework to help teams rebuild trust and perform at their best.



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0:00.0

You're listening to TED Talks Daily, where we bring you new ideas and conversations to spark

0:08.5

your curiosity every day.

0:10.5

I'm your host, Elise Hugh.

0:12.7

Licensed psychologist, researcher, and executive coach, Renee Saint-Jacques has spent her

0:19.3

career studying how emotional intelligence can transform work culture and performance.

0:24.9

We're not just leaders. We're cycle breakers. So today I'm asking you, what kind of legacy do you want to leave as a leader?

0:35.6

In her talk, Renee reveals the psychological foundations that make teams excel and why true success

0:41.8

comes from recognizing and building on these very foundations.

0:46.0

She offers practical science-based insights for people and teams and shares why human-centered,

0:51.0

emotionally led leadership is integral for all of us and for generations of leaders

0:56.2

to come. That's coming up right after a short break.

1:06.8

And now our TED Talk of the Day.

1:10.3

A few years ago, I found myself individually coaching both a manager

1:16.2

and an employee at the same time. The employee was super confident she'd get promoted, whereas the manager

1:25.3

privately share with me that she had no plans to do so.

1:29.3

Why the disconnect?

1:32.3

The manager admitted using the feedback sandwich technique,

1:38.3

which is praise, feedback, then praise again,

1:41.3

embedding that critical feedback in the praise, leading to false expectations.

1:49.4

Despite the manager's good intentions, the impact was damaging. There was burnout for the manager

1:56.1

for overcompensating. There was a breakdown in trust for the employee and ultimately

2:03.1

unachieved goals for the organization.

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