How To Get Your Mom to Accept You
How To! with Mike Pesca
Peach Fish Projects
4.3 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 3 March 2020
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
When Hema first realized she was gay a few years ago after immigrating to the U.S., she knew she had to tell her mom. But the conversation didn't go well. Hema's mom lives in India and is convinced being gay is a Western phenomenon. So how does Hema help her mom accept her for who she is? In this episode of How To!, we bring in Sonali Gulati, a professor, filmmaker and queer rights activist who made a documentary about the parents of LGBTQ people in India. Drawing from her own personal experience, Sonali helps Hema figure out the best way to frame the conversation with her mom. One tip? Speak your parents' language to explain how your life fits their definition of success.
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| 0:30.6 | Before I came here, I was like, I was really scared of like all this LGBT stuff, I guess. |
| 0:37.4 | Like I've never seen gay people in flesh in India guess like I've never seen a gay people in flesh in |
| 0:39.3 | India like I've never met one or people who were like openly gay so coming here and meeting |
| 0:44.3 | people I remember like suddenly like walking down the road and like realizing tears started like |
| 0:50.4 | flowing down my cheeks and I was like like, oh shit, I'm gay. |
| 0:57.6 | This is how to. |
| 0:58.9 | I'm Charles Duhigg. |
| 1:00.6 | Each week, we help listeners work through a problem. |
| 1:04.1 | And this week, our listener is struggling with something we've all experienced some degree. |
| 1:08.4 | How to get your parents to accept you. |
| 1:11.2 | I'm Hema. I'm a biomedical researcher at Ohio State, and I'm gay. |
| 1:17.9 | Hema didn't fully admit to herself that she was gay until just a few years ago, in her mid-20s, |
| 1:22.9 | after she moved from India to the U.S. |
| 1:25.9 | Initially, it was like, I didn't want to, like, be gay, so it was, like, six months of struggle |
| 1:30.5 | of trying to be straight, but that never works out. |
| 1:33.5 | And then I was, like, slowly starting to accept myself, finding, finding out people out there, |
| 1:37.4 | finding out stories. |
| 1:40.9 | One of the big issues for Hema is that even though being a lesbian is something she's embraced, |
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