How to get over the need to over pursue a girl you really like?

Well, the need to over-pursue is basically you thinking you don't deserve what you want.

And especially if you grew up in a family where you didn't get enough I love you, is enough out of boys, enough hugs.

You're going to be emotionally conditioned to crave attention and love and be used to not getting it.

And what a lot of these guys don't understand is women tend to be light cats.

You got all kind of come and go.

One minute you're all hot and you want to spend lots time together.

And the next minute you're like, oh, I got to go do this.

I got to go do that.

And they tend to freak out. And so for them, deep down, they don't feel worthy of love. And so what they do is

they try to force things. They call too much. They text too much. Try to force things along. And so when

they do that, it's the opposite of masculinity, because all women typically, what's most important to them is a confident guy. And so that's the opposite of masculinity because what all women typically what's most important to them is a confident

guy and so that's the opposite of confidence if you don't call a guy back right away or i'm sure all

of you girls have met guys in the date in your dating lives and dating experiences where you

don't text them back quickly maybe you're're busy, maybe your phone died or whatever,

and then you turn it back on, you look at it, and there's an angry message. Why haven't you responded?

What's going on? Then you can tell the guy's needy, and he's a beta male, and often leads to ghosting.

And there's no spark. I just think you was a friend.

I think we should see other people.

I'm confused.

I'm not sure I'm able to be at this point in my life.

Get those kinds of things.

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