Now, are all the traitors present?

Let's get started, shall we? From rags to riches. I'm so sick of this. Working like a dog and being treated worse. Yorkshire to New York. Poor climbers, you and me. A life dedicated to revenge. Let's make this an occasion to remember. A woman of substance on Channel 4. Stream now. No. I have a question for Rob Funk.

He asks, how can I get my wife to want sex more than once a week?

Well, the reason why your girl is not that interested in sex is she does not feel safe.

When a woman feels hurt and understood, the legs open. And when she doesn't, the

legs close. And because I do a lot of phone sessions with guys and their wives or their

girlfriends have lost attraction, it's always for the same two reasons. Typically, I was talking to

a guy last night. Their business has been taken off. And for like the last year, you know, he's out of the house at like 5 a.m. and he comes back around 9 o'clock at night and they got kids. And they hardly had been on a date in the last year. And she kept telling him, we never do anything. We never do this. We never do that. And he just, oh, we got to make money, got to pay this off, I got to do that.

So he just wasn't dating and courting her. And she wasn't into sex as much because she didn't feel safe in the relationship. Plus, she didn't feel like he cared because he never took her out on dates anymore. And women instinctively know that if you care, you're going to date them. And if you don't, you won't date them. And if your girl complains about the fact that you never go out or do anything and you want to argue with her about the $10,000 trip you took six months ago,

as if that should be a good thing.

All she hears is that nothing's going to change.

And you typically are going to get about six to 12 months of you not dating and courting your girl and not making her feel heard and understood before she starts looking for the exits.

And so because character is destiny, depending on her level of character, if she came from a home where there was lying and there was cheating and there was infidelity

and there was drama and it was a messy house and household dysfunctional,

then when you're in a relationship with a woman like that where she saw mom and dad cheating on each other

and cheating on subsequent partners, then what's going to happen is she's just,

when she gets to a point that whether it's six,

12 months and she just feels like nothing's going to change

because you've been over it over and over

and you never do anything differently,

then she's just going to start giving out her phone number

and inviting attention from other men

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