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Coach Corey Wayne

How To Get Her Back After Over Pursuing

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 26 January 2022

⏱️ 9 minutes

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How to get her back after over pursuing and turning her off romantically.


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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.

0:04.0

And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be how to get her back after over pursuing.

0:09.0

So I've got an email success story today from a guy who he turned his platonic girl friend of two years into a romantic girl friend.

0:24.8

So, but what's interesting is that once they started dating and hooking up,

0:29.2

it wasn't until he noticed she was backing away and starting to cancel dates that he had

0:34.1

become guilty of over pursuing because it happened slowly over time. And so he talks

0:40.5

about how he backed off and now things have completely turned around. She's pursuing him and she's

0:47.7

said that something has changed about him but she can't quite put her finger on it. So I got a quote

0:53.6

that I wrote and then we'll go through his email because this is a good

0:56.8

email because a lot of guys, I mean, this totally reminds me of what would happen in my 20s

1:01.5

and me being naive and not knowing any better and not having access to books like mine

1:08.2

or the internet for that matter because this would have been in the 90s,

1:13.5

I would literally just chase the women right out of my life and have no idea and then get friend zoned.

1:18.9

And so that's where this guy started out, and obviously the last thing he wanted to do was get

1:22.1

stuck back in platonic friend zone after making it to the promised land.

1:30.7

So the quote says, when a man over over pursues a woman in the courtship she starts feeling smothered and like she is losing her freedom she will predictably

1:37.0

back away and become less open to spending time with him and maybe even start breaking dates

1:42.0

and saying that she is confused and needs space.

1:45.5

If this happens to you, back away and wait for her to contact you first and then set the next date.

1:53.0

It's always better to let a woman do 80 to 90% of the calling texting and pursuing.

1:58.2

She will like you more if she has to seek your attention and validation

2:02.1

versus you seeking hers. Obviously it's a very simple thing to do, but when a guy is in the

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