Hey this is Leo for actualized.org and in this video I want to talk about how to forgive someone. How do you go about forgiving people? In this video

what I really want to do is I want to make a important distinction that most people don't understand about forgiveness.

And this distinction is the distinction between true forgiveness on the one hand

and half-hearted forgiveness on the other.

Most people, they don't do true forgiveness.

They do have hearted forgiveness.

And the difference is very stark.

If you do true forgiveness, then you give the relationship a new clean slate to work on up from.

If you don't do that, if you do a half-hearted forgiveness, then actually what you're doing

is you're toxifying the relationship even further.

So we're going to get into the details of that distinction. to find the relationship even further.

So we're going to get into the details of that distinction.

And we're also going to talk about how do you actually go about

and forgive someone and let it stick, make it stick within you. And we're going to talk about some of the different

situations in which you might want to forgive people. All right, so let's crack

into that. The first thing that we should probably talk about is the different

situations in which you might want to forgive someone.

So these are things like cheating and lying, abuse, whether emotional or physical or verbal, hurtful remarks that people tell you, fits of anger and

fighting that you have with people, just wrong behavior in general of any sort.

People wrong you in some way and you feel like you're slided, you're offended,

harm was done to you and therefore forgiveness is now required.

At least if you want to maintain that relationship.

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