this is the flavor. I'll take the first question is how do you find the right

neighborhood right with the right frequencies? This is where the

spectrum or the chain of feeding comes in and so many people

having need to bleed and this is to me

one of the challenges that I had is I was younger

feeling as if if I am philanthropic if I am

here to be of service and value to others if you know as in Yiddish my name

means beloved servant if I am a beloved servant

you know then I need two people at I have a need to bleed I have a need to

please and I care about what other people think

in the context of their opinion judgments and conditions that they put upon me

but once I shifted my mindset and said I have a need to feed in order to feed

me in order so I can feed if I have a need to feed instead of a need to

bleed then I'm going to raise my awareness of a neighborhood that feeds

instead of a neighborhood that bleeds and I'm talking about frequency

now it applies to other things in your life I surround yourself with the right

people places ideas etc but in the most relative

relationships are you utilizing a need to feed or a need to bleed

because you need to make that decision and say to yourself what does

caring mean what does caring mean is caring

creating the need to be offended separate and

various superior is it need to be angry frustrated angry resentful guilty

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