How To Find True Love (And Make It Last) | Mark Groves | Align Podcast #539

Align Podcast

Aaron Alexander

Society & Culture, Philosophy

4.8 • 923 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2025

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Mark Groves returns to the Align Podcast to explore what it truly means to find love that lasts. He breaks down how self-abandonment, poor boundaries, and past wounds keep us from the relationships we wan, and what it takes to build real connection. Through stories, parts work, and personal insights, Mark reveals the secret to attracting meaningful love. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start showing up fully, this episode is your roadmap to true love. OUR GUEST Meet Mark Groves: Human Connection Specialist, Speaker, Author, Coach, Podcast Host and founder of Create The Love. Born with an innate curiosity and a hunger for truth, Mark’s journey of self-discovery and personal liberation has led him to spend the last decade coaching and inspiring millions worldwide to create the life and love they desire. Through his candid but compassionate, no-BS guidance, Mark has helped empower countless individuals, teams, and companies to step into their most authentic, effective, loving selves, transform how they relate to themselves and others, and create profound changes in their lives and relationships. MARK GROVES 🌐 WEBSITE ▶ https://markgroves.com/ 🌐 CREATE THE LOVE ▶ http://createthelove.com/ 📸 IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/itsmarkgroves/ 📸 CREATE THE LOVE IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/createthelove ▶️ YT ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@markgroves AARON ALEXANDER 📸 IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/aaronalexander/ 🤳 TIKTOK ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@alignmethod 👉 SUBSCRIBE ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@AlignPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 🌐 WEBSITE ▶ https://www.alignpodcast.com ABOUT Aaron Alexander is a pioneering manual therapist and movement coach with over 5 years experience. He is the founder and creator of The Align Method, author of The Align Method book, and host of The Align Podcast which has ranked #1 in Nutrition on Apple Podcasts. Aaron has worked with some of the world’s greatest professional athletes, performers, and celebrities to help relieve pain, improve strength, better flexibility, and ease the mind and body. On this channel, Aaron interviews renowned experts in a range of fields focused on improving the mind and body. This mind and body podcast will teach you all that you need to know to become the healthiest version of yourself by integrating simplified ancient techniques and the foundational principles of The Align Method to strengthen your body, balance the mind, and activate healing systems in daily life. The mission? To be the best personal growth podcast about healthy habits, redefine functional movement, and make fitness who you are; not what you do. TOPICS 1. Dating Advice 2. Relationship Advice 3. Setting Boundaries 4. Emotional IQ 5. Parts work 6. Attraction SPONSORS Get 10% off on your order at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Mark Rose. Thank you for being here, man. I appreciate you making time.
0:04.1	I'm so excited.
0:05.3	What can a man do to become more attractive to the right woman? And what does that
0:11.9	question mean to the right woman and how do we become more attractive for her?
0:18.4	We're starting off hot and I like it.'t do i don't do intros in the podcast
0:23.7	a little more and just go right in the conversation i love it i love it i think it's interesting
0:28.2	when i would have thought like what was the right woman or who was the right woman when i was
0:32.9	um 18 20 22 i didn't i didn't really have a lot of clarity on what that list looked like. I don't know
0:40.5	if you're similar to me, but I didn't have class in school that said like, hey, you know, you
0:45.7	should really figure out what your values are and then you should live a life aligned with those
0:50.4	values and that will bring you peace. And it will be the hardest thing you've ever done to experience the forces of relationship
0:58.9	and society and expectations as a male.
1:01.9	That could be true with women too, but I think especially for men being that's my framework.
1:07.8	It'll be the hardest thing to stay aligned with those when you're celebrated for promiscuity,
1:13.9	for status, for whatever that might be. Um, musculature strength, not that any of those things
1:20.4	aren't, you know, doesn't have value sometimes, like in terms of musculature. Um, but even even and so knowing that was never taught to me my
1:31.5	what i looked for and a woman tended to come more from people pleasing or like can i save them
1:37.5	can i take care of them how do i be valuable and i think because of the framing of what we talk about with men, you know, I used to think it was getting better, but I actually think it's getting worse, is this concept of toxic masculinity. So I grew up in the 80s and 90s and a lot of the conversation about men. Of course, we're on at that point, the back end of one wave of feminism was that men are rapists
2:03.7	and murderers and et cetera.
2:06.5	And so I think when there's not a mature adult who's able to separate what unintegrated
2:13.3	trauma is or a lack of integration versus toxicity being a gender you know being what men are
2:20.1	I was really afraid of boundaries because I thought boundaries were being controlling and so
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