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How To!: Find Love Where You Least Expect It

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🗓️ 10 October 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Camila is torn. She wants a partner. Someone who is ambitious. Someone who is financially secure. Someone who checks in with her at the end of the day. But most of her dates have turned out to be duds and she’s starting to think she’ll never find real romance. Should she keep searching for ‘the one,’ or should she focus on being happy on her own? On this episode of How To!, new co-host Courtney Martin brings in Samhita Mukhopadhyay to guide Camila. Samhita is an author and feminist. She was the executive editor of Teen Vogue and her first book was about dating. She has a ton of smart advice for understanding the narratives we have around dating, expanding where we find love, and ultimately healing our hearts. If you liked this episode, check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, Rosemary Belson, Kevin Bendis, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, how to listeners. I'm coming to you today with some exciting news. I'd like to

0:04.8

introduce my new co-host and your new best friend, Courtney Martin. Courtney, welcome to

0:10.8

the show. Thank you, Carvelle. Hello, everybody. I'm so excited. First of all, it's such an

0:16.3

honor to share this with you, Carvelle. I'm such a big fan of your work. It's true. It's

0:21.6

true. I'm psyched to be in this with you. And deeply honored that Amanda Ripley, I'm

0:28.0

feeling some big shoes. I think she's an incredible journalist. And I just feel really grateful

0:32.6

that she thought I'd be good for this. But yeah, I mean, I'm widely curious and kind of

0:38.2

obsessively helpful sometimes to a fault. So this is actually a perfect fit for me. I'm

0:44.9

just one of those people who is always looking for answers to other people's questions. And

0:50.3

now I get paid to do it. Like how sweet is that? You've come to the right place. Along

0:54.7

those lines, tell us the listeners a little bit about your background. So I'm a journalist

0:58.8

by training, although kind of a weirdo journalist, I've never like fully felt like I fit into

1:03.6

the traditional journalism world. So I co-founded something called the Solutions Journalism

1:08.0

Network. When I was a wee young thing with David Bornstein and Tina Rosenberg, and that

1:13.2

was really out of my conviction that journalists should be covering solutions as rigorously

1:17.2

and compellingly as we do problems. And that's another reason I was really interested

1:21.0

in this podcast is kind of redefining how we think about who is an expert. And I know

1:25.8

that's been important to you, Carvelle, is like, not necessarily looking at just positional

1:30.0

authority or just someone who knows how to be part of elite networks, but like who are

1:34.4

the actual authorities on various topics that we care about? And how do we think more

1:38.5

like expansively about that? And you've written like a ton of books,

1:42.2

it seems like. I think according to my notes, 4,578 books, you've written in the last five

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