How To Find A Mentor in 3 Steps #FreedomFastLane
Capitalism.com with Ryan Daniel Moran
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🗓️ 24 May 2019
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
For some reason, entrepreneurs seem to forget that mentorship is also a relationship like any other: you have to add value to it, or else you’re just another askhole.
Tune in for a 3 step on how where you need to be and what you need to do to find and keep a good mentor.
Key Takeaways
[:24] “Hey Ryan! will you mentor me?” No.
[1:42] The one-on-one mentor/mentee relationship is very important — and just like any relationship — you have to make deposits in order to withdraw.
Here is what you need to do to find a mentor:
Right place [2:28] put yourself in a position to identify and meet the type of person you want to enter into a mentoring relationship with. Join communities, pay for masterminds, events and conferences!
Right person [3:50] identify the person who has built or done what you want to do, regardless of the area, marriage, business, fitness.
Right price [4:55] find the give! Find out what they want, what they don’t have and give it to them.
[5:54] Human beings have a limited capacity for people who they can pay attention to. If you want a mentor to pay attention to you, you have to offer them value, and offer it to them strategically.
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| 0:00.0 | This is so vastly important because who you become and the results that you get are determined by who you surround yourself with. |
| 0:10.1 | Build a business, invest the profits. I'm Ryan Daniel Moran and this is Freedom Fastlane. |
| 0:26.1 | Hey everybody, I'm Ryan Daniel Moran with Capitalism.com. |
| 0:28.9 | Today we're talking about how to find mentors. |
| 0:32.4 | This is one of the most commonly asked questions that I'm asked outside of, |
| 0:33.8 | hey, will you mentor me? |
| 0:37.4 | I love getting that question because I respond with no. I'll explain why. I don't mean to |
| 0:40.1 | come across as overly douchey with that response. But what we're going to talk about in this video |
| 0:46.2 | is something that I call the relationship bank account. And the relationship bank account is |
| 0:52.6 | you have two people. And the reason why you're in a relationship |
| 0:58.4 | with another person is because they bring some value to your life in in some way and the more |
| 1:07.1 | that you bring each other value in that relationship, the more you can make withdrawals |
| 1:12.6 | from that bank account. |
| 1:13.6 | The more you deposit into the bank account, the more you can withdraw. |
| 1:16.6 | We've all dealt with the relationship with the person that we might call an ask hole, the |
| 1:22.6 | person who just wants and takes and extracts as much as possible. |
| 1:26.6 | No one likes them. But for some reason, |
| 1:29.0 | I think entrepreneurs have this blind spot about finding mentors and they forget that just like |
| 1:33.8 | all relationships, mentors need to have deposits made into their relationship bank account. |
| 1:39.6 | And that's what we're going to talk about in this video. |
| 1:41.6 | This is so vastly important because who you |
| 1:46.5 | become and the results that you get are determined by who you surround yourself with. It's |
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