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How to Fall in Love with Herpes

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Unladylike Media

Feminism, Gender, Media Analysis, Body Politics, Patriarchy, Intersectionality, Society & Culture, Cultural Commentary, Beauty Standards, Internet Culture, Womens Rights

4.83.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2019

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Herpes is super common and manageable but it's constantly the butt of jokes. And that punchline stigma can throw a major wrench into romance. So, this Valentine's Day, we're unpacking the herpes rom-com with help from two Unladylike listeners who get real about dropping the h-bomb while dating — and finding happily ever after.

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0:00.0

2 years ago, I contracted general herpes, despite practicing safe sex and having only had

0:09.3

three partners ever.

0:10.9

After the initial shock of the diagnosis were off, I returned to a normal life and now

0:14.7

rarely think about having herpes.

0:17.3

That isn't until any potential romantic interest comes up.

0:20.2

How am I supposed to date and have a normal love life now that I have this baggage?

0:24.1

Hey y'all and welcome to UnLadylike, the show that finds out what happens when women

0:44.4

break their rules.

0:45.4

I'm Caroline.

0:46.4

I'm Kristen.

0:47.7

Another Valentine's Day is upon us.

0:50.2

Love is in the air.

0:51.7

And so is herpes.

0:52.7

Yes, true.

0:53.7

Y'all, herpes is super common, super manageable, and it rarely causes major health problems.

0:59.5

But like we just heard from an UnLadylike listener named Patty, herpes carries a lot of

1:04.3

mental baggage when it comes to dating.

1:07.5

Patty's letter jumped out to us also because it seems like all we ever focus on when it

1:12.1

comes to herpes is either how not to get it or how totally embarrassing it is if you

1:17.6

do because it's incurable.

1:20.0

So is our Valentine to Patty and all the listeners who share such intimate parts of their lives

1:24.8

with us.

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