All right, you guys, this week I'm talking to all of you guys that know that this conversation is not going to be an easy one.

You know you are dealing with someone who is very difficult and does not respect what you have to say, nor do they respect your boundaries.

This is for the people that make life so fun and interesting and really difficult at times.

But seriously, I know you're frustrated and I know you're aggravated by the situation, possibly even intimidated,

but I'm going to teach you something in this video that will help you to really learn how to enforce boundaries. We have talked about boundaries so much on this channel because it is an extremely important topic and one that we don't learn growing up. No one teaches this boundaries 101. So it is fundamental that you not only understand when a boundary is being violated, but also understand how to handle

yourself in situations with people that are difficult, that are not going to respect you.

Now I've dealt with a lot of disrespect over the years, and I'm sure you have as well, and

I know that each situation is completely different.

And because each situation is so different at times, it can be really hard to teach someone

about boundaries when we're not talking about your particular situation.

So I wanted to make a list of like all different types of situations that you could possibly

be in and how to handle yourself in that situation and how to enforce boundaries.

I think sometimes people assume that with boundaries and enforcing them, that it's like,

okay, I gotta quit my job, okay, I gotta cut this person off and not have them in my life

whatsoever.

And it doesn't have to be like that whatsoever.

Boundaries is all about consistency and it is all about you teaching someone what you will

and will not tolerate.

And over time, any person, even like

a really unhealthy one, eventually is going to have to change their tactic. But they'll only

change, and we're not talking about their character, we're just talking about how they approach

you. They will only change if you are consistent with what you're doing. So if you're consistent with what you're doing, then this person will have absolutely no option other than to change because they're going to keep hitting themselves their head against a brick wall and they're not getting what it is that they want from you.

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