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The Mike Dillard Show

How To Dramatically Improve Your Relationships With Tah And Kole

The Mike Dillard Show

Mike Dillard

Education, Entrepreneurship, Business, Self-improvement

4.8583 Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2020

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Sooo… Are you in a relationship right now? Well if you are, you’re either closer than ever right now, or you’ve never been further apart.

You’re now at home with someone 24/7.

Your kids are there with you.

The news is keeping everyone all fired up and in anger or fear.

Everyone’s normal routines have gone out the window.

You might have a friend or family member in the hospital, and there’s a good chance that you’re probably experiencing some financial stress to just add a nice little cherry on top.

I can’t think of a situation that could put more stress on a couple than this crisis.

Well if that’s the case, I’d encourage you to look at this as an opportunity to benefit from something I call, “forced change”.

This is a time or experience in your life when you’re literally being forced to change who you are, how you act, what you think, and how you live your life.

All of these stressors are going to magnify what was always present.

If you were previously disconnected as a couple, then this crisis is going to magnify that.

If you were doing awesome and in flow, then you’ve probably grown closer as a couple.

But making that transition is certainly easier said than done.

It’s going to require courage, it’s going to require vulnerability, and it’s going to require some long-overdue apologies and healing.

Well today we’re joined by to amazing humans who were a part of my healing journey last year, and who have become incredibly dear friends as a result.

As you’re about to hear, Tah and Kole Whitty have been through just about everything a person can go through in life. Trauma, abuse, drugs, disease… You name it, they’ve been through it.

But they turned those challenges into their gift. They’ve dedicated their lives to healing themselves, and healing others, and they’ve become masters of their craft.

As a result of their work, they also have one of the most amazing relationships you’ll ever see.

So I asked them to come onto the show to help you, heal yours, whether it’s with your spouse, your co-workers, your kids, your family members, or simply the relationship you have with yourself.

This crisis is an opportunity to face and change the challenges you have in your life.

The ONLY way you lose during this period, is if you don’t take action and use it as a catalyst to learn and transform.

If you do that, you’ve won.

If you need help doing that, call Tah and Kole.

Without further ado, let’s dive in.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Mike Dillard podcast where we help entrepreneurs like you get the knowledge and skills you need to bring your dreams to life.

0:12.1

So are you in a relationship right now? Well, if you are, you're either closer than you've ever been or you've never been further apart.

0:19.6

You're now at home with somebody 24-7, your kids

0:22.2

are there with you. The news is keeping everybody all fired up in anger or fear. Everybody's

0:27.7

normal routines have gone out the window. You might have a friend or family member that's in the

0:31.8

hospital and there's a good chance that you're probably experiencing some financial

0:35.7

stress just to add a nice little cherry on top of all

0:39.2

of it. I cannot think of a situation that could put more stress on a couple or a relationship than this

0:45.1

crisis. Well, if that's the case, I'd encourage you to look at this as an opportunity to benefit from

0:50.2

something I call forced change. This is a time or experience in your life when you're literally

0:55.2

being forced to change who you are, how you act, what you think, and how you live. All of these

1:00.1

stressors are going to magnify what was already present. If you were previously disconnected as a

1:05.6

couple, then this crisis is going to magnify that. If you were doing awesome and in flow,

1:10.6

then you've probably grown closer in flow, then you've probably

1:11.3

grown closer as a couple than you've ever been. But making that transition is certainly easier

1:16.6

said than done right now. It's going to require courage. It's going to require vulnerability.

1:21.3

And it's going to require some long overdue apologies and healing. Well, today we're joined

1:26.7

by two amazing humans who were a part of my

1:28.9

healing journey last year and who have become incredibly dear friends of mine as a result.

1:33.4

As you're about to hear, Ta and Cole Whitty have been through just about everything a person

1:37.7

can go through in life. From trauma to abuse to drugs and disease, you name it, they have been

1:43.0

through it. But they turn those challenges into their gift.

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