How to Do What You Want (Without Being Judged)
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 21 October 2016
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you want without worrying about what other people think? Well, you can, and I’m going to show you how. First, it starts with an internal mindset shift. Then, there are two external reactions I’ll teach you that will instantly disarm those “judge-y” friends and possibly even win them over to your side. Either way you’ll be free to do what you want, and they’ll be left without a leg to stand on.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love Life, I'm Matthew Hussie. Now do you ever feel like you're stuck in a rut? |
| 0:08.0 | We all do from time to time. The problem is just going through the motions, |
| 0:13.0 | cuts off our ability to grow and increase our happiness in life. |
| 0:17.0 | Now what would happen if you actually began living each and every day with purpose? |
| 0:22.0 | Let me tell you, it is possible to transform your life from ordinary to extraordinary |
| 0:27.0 | and it doesn't have to take months or years but just a matter of days. |
| 0:32.0 | Stick with me till the end of the show and I'll tell you exactly how to do it. |
| 0:39.0 | If we have a caller on the line today Alexis are you there? |
| 0:42.0 | I'm Matthew I'm here. |
| 0:43.0 | So Alexis tell me what was your question? |
| 0:46.0 | Sure, so a few years ago I had a bad car accident since then I've been trying to feel like myself again. |
| 0:52.0 | But now at 33 I feel like I have a back of a 55 year old. |
| 0:56.0 | So it's a change how active I've been but I'm trying not to let it define me. |
| 1:00.0 | Wondering if you have any advice on how to keep it out of my personal narrative, especially when meeting new people? |
| 1:06.0 | Wow, wow. What a great, you're phrasing of that question. |
| 1:09.0 | Really articular. How to keep it out of my personal narrative. That's fantastic. I love that. |
| 1:16.0 | So your question is perfect. I mean we all have this, we all have something that we feel like features a bit too heavily in or has the potential I guess to feature too heavily in our personal relationships when we meet people. |
| 1:33.0 | So for example, you can imagine how much if I'm not careful my job, what I do as my career features in my personal narrative. |
| 1:43.0 | Right. |
| 1:44.0 | If I'm not careful and I find that for a time I felt that found that very difficult because everyone I would speak to the moment I would start talking about what I did, it would become the subject. |
| 1:57.0 | And it's all that would get talked about for the next 30 minutes to an hour or whatever and they would keep coming back to it. |
| 2:04.0 | And I found that tough because there were, you know, there are so many things in life I'm interested in that I wanted to explore all of those topics and those ideas and also wanted to show that I was multi-dimensional, that I wasn't just this person who gave advice. |
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