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How to Do It: The Thing That’s Been Turning Me on the Most Is Completely Unavoidable

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🗓️ 26 December 2021

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s keeping a neighborly secret. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders how to bring up a touchy subject with her boyfriend. Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $25 off your first year. *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

What's up guys, I am Ashley Gavin, and I am your father.

0:03.1

I'm Elena Joy, I am Mommy, and I'm Mackin from your hot teenage brother.

0:08.4

Baby, Mack is baby.

0:09.7

We are your chosen family, because you don't have a gay family, and you need a gay family.

0:14.3

Every week, we bring a topic to the family dinner table from gender dysphoria,

0:17.9

to monogamy, to how to figure out if someone is into you.

0:20.5

Listen to Chosen Family every Wednesday on your favorite podcast app,

0:24.0

or watch full episodes on YouTube to get the full family experience.

0:27.7

Chosen Family is a part of the Forever Dog podcast network.

0:31.5

You're listening to this week's free episode of how to do it.

0:34.0

Slate Plus members get another episode of this podcast every Monday,

0:37.6

and that's where we chat about some of our juicious letters.

0:40.8

To hear those members only episodes, and get access to all of our how to do it,

0:45.8

advice columns on slate.com, sign up for slate plus at slate.com slash HDDIPLUS.

0:53.9

Warning, this podcast contains explicit language and very specific discussions of sex.

1:05.2

Hi, I'm Stoya. I'm a writer and pornographer.

1:08.0

And I'm Rich Juzwiakka. I'm a writer.

1:10.4

Welcome to the how to do it podcast where we try to help you with all of your sex and

1:14.9

relationship issues twice a week. You can ask us anything about sex or your bodies or dating

1:20.4

etiquette or whatever. We're here to help. I have a lot of feelings about voyeurism.

1:27.4

Are they good or bad feelings? Well, they're complicated.

1:29.6

Okay. Because, you know, it was my job to be looked at for a really long time.

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