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How to Do It: I Had Another Woman Take Over Sex With My Boyfriend...

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🗓️ 29 July 2017

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who feels left out of her partners’ escapades. Then they hear from a letter writer who’s bothered that they don’t know why they didn’t get another date. Mentioned in the episode: Out of the Shadows by Walt Odets Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $25 off your first year. Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This episode is brought to you by Pepsi Max. Christmas is great, but there's loads of ways to make it better.

0:08.0

Like sneaking some chili into the gravy for some extra ink,

0:12.0

or building a playlist that will even get your

0:14.8

nann up on the table. Or just cracking open an ice-cold Pepsi Max.

0:21.8

Christmas.

0:23.0

Better with Pepsi Max.

0:27.0

You're listening to this week's free episode.

0:30.0

Our second episode each week is exclusively for Slate Plus members.

0:35.2

You can sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month.

0:39.0

You'll get every How to Do It podcast without ads.

0:41.9

Plus you'll be able to read every single advice

0:44.4

column on slate with no monthly limits. Join now at slate.com slash

0:49.6

htdi plus that's slate dot com slash htd i plus that's slate dot com slash htd That's Slate. Slate.com slash HTD P-L-U-S.

0:58.0

Warning, this podcast contains explicit language and conversations of a sexual nature.

1:03.2

Hi, I'm Stoya, I'm a writer and pornography.

1:09.4

And I'm Rich Jezweak, I'm a writer.

1:11.6

We're the authors of how to Do It, Slate's Sex Advice Column.

1:16.0

This is our new podcast where we answer brand new letters about all your sex and relationship issues

1:21.0

twice a week. You can ask us anything about sex.

1:24.4

Anything, we're here to help. You know, I sometimes talk about romantic partners. I frequently talk about my own experience with sex

1:39.1

work and sometimes I'll throw in a personal anecdote if we're talking about like the spatial geometry.

1:47.0

But when I comes to relationships, mostly what I draw on is my relationship with Steve.

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