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Your Money Guide on the Side

How to Divorce-Proof Your Finances (Whether You're Married, Divorced, or Somewhere In Between)

Your Money Guide on the Side

Tyler Gardner

Business, Education, Entrepreneurship, Investing, How To

4.92.4K Ratings

🗓️ 18 May 2026

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The period immediately following a divorce is one of the most financially vulnerable times in a person's life.

0:08.0

You have just been through something that fundamentally reorganized your sense of identity and your sense of what the future looks like.

0:15.8

Your nervous system is operating in a way that is genuinely not optimized for clear long-term financial

0:21.8

thinking. This is not a character flaw. This is neuroscience.

0:27.8

Hello, friends. This is Tyler Gardner welcoming you to another episode of your money guide

0:33.1

on the side, where it is my job to simplify what seems complex, add nuance to what seems simple,

0:39.5

and learn from and alongside some of the brightest minds in money, finance, and investing.

0:45.3

So let's get started and get you one step closer to where you need to be.

0:52.6

Quick note before we get into it.

0:54.9

May's pre-order incentive for my book Real Wealth is now live.

0:58.8

When you pre-order this month, I'm sending you two chapters that didn't make the final cut,

1:03.3

chapters I genuinely love and wish I could have kept, delivered digitally in early June.

1:08.5

Pre-ordering also locks you in for every monthly incentive between now

1:12.1

and the December 1st release. Go to Tylergardner.com slash book, click the button that says

1:17.2

claim my bonuses, upload your receipt, takes two minutes, and you're in. Now on with the show.

1:23.9

I have never been divorced. I hope I never am, but I have spent enough time in the world of personal finance to know that

1:33.3

the people who get hurt the worst, financially, specifically, are almost never the ones who did

1:39.3

anything wrong in the marriage. They're the ones who never saw it coming and had no financial

1:45.5

infrastructure of their own when it did. Today, we're going to fix that. But before we get

1:52.3

into it, a familiar ask, if this show has ever made you think differently about money,

1:57.2

I'd be genuinely grateful if you'd take 30 seconds and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or

2:02.4

Spotify. It helps more people find the show. It costs you nothing. And it means more to me than I'll

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