So I bet I have a way for even reluctant teens and tweens to spend time with you.

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and your sensory kids, forget about it. They're going to try to steal the cozy earth bubble

cuddle blanket from your room. I'd have them do extra chores to buy their own, but then you

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That's cozyEarth.com code calm for 40% off. So I'm speaking at a conference in New York,

and this young dad asked a really great question. He said, I was raised by a dad who disciplined

us and kind of that old school my way or the highway

approach. And I'm thankful now for the discipline he imparted into my life. But I'd like to do that

without the anger and without the broken relationship. It's really cool how he phrased that, right? He said, I find myself angry.

And so I, so if I can't discipline without anger, then I just don't do anything. And I let my

wife do it. So how can I discipline without the anger? And that's a really well-crafted question. And that's what we're going to discuss on today's episode of the Calm Parenting Podcast. So welcome. This is Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm. You can find us at CelebrateCalm.com. If you need help with anything, reach out to our son Casey, C-A-S-E-Y, at Celebr celebrate calm.com. Tell us about your family. What are you struggling with?

We get together as a family. We talk about the situation. We will reply to you personally,

directly with very practical tools because that's our mission. So let's begin answering this question,

but I want to start conceptually. You know that I have a very distinct

desire approach of I like just hopping into the very practical, here's how you do it. But I think,

but I want to start with some thought experiments here and get to the big picture first. And this is a

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