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Mental Illness Happy Hour

How To Disagree - Oren Jay Sofer

Mental Illness Happy Hour

Paul Gilmartin

Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Sexuality

4.8 β€’ 6.1K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 11 October 2019

⏱️ 99 minutes

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Summary

The communications trainer, meditation teacher and author talks about his history of stuffed anger and how he learned to use non-violent communication to better his life and relationships. They also discuss Somatic Experiencing for releasing trapped trauma from the body. He is the author of the book Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication. Oren’s website: https://www.orenjaysofer.com/ The book: https://amazon.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/orenjaysofer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OrenJaySofer/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orenjaysofer/ To participate in his guided meditations text "guided" to 44222 Support Our Sponsors! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp online counseling. To get a free week go to www.BetterHelp.com/mental Must be 18. This episode is sponsored by the podcast The Hilarious World of Depression. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts. Other Links Mentioned For more info on Peter Levine and Somatic Experiencing go to www.TraumaHealing.org WAYS TO HELP THE PODCAST ______________________ Subscribe via iTunes and leave a review. It costs nothing. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2 β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€” Spread the word via social media. It costs nothing. Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod -------------------------------------------------------- Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod Become a one-time or monthly donor via Paypal or Zelle (make payment to [email protected]) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Try Our Sponsor’s Products/Services --------------------------------------------------- See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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0:00.0

Welcome to episode 456 with my guest, Oran J. Sofer. I'm Paul Gilmarten. This is the

0:07.6

metal illness. Happy hour. I am not a therapist and this is not meant to be a substitute for

0:13.4

professional metal counseling. And listen to this for a minute and I think that will become

0:18.2

very obvious. The website for this show is metalpod.com. Metalpod also the social media handles

0:25.4

that you can follow. Follow us at I want to read some loves. This is from the loves survey.

0:33.8

And oh, before I do that, we have a winner for the cutting board that I made. The number that I chose

0:41.3

was 339 and the closest guest was 338 by a Patreon donor named John Mitchell. A nice English

0:50.6

fellow. So I will be shipping him. I'm going to ship it up by the Queen Mary though. So he

0:57.8

should be getting that in about three months. And I'm going to ship it in the care of a couple that

1:04.9

dresses up like it's 1898 and they will buy when they present it to him. Thank you everybody that

1:12.1

submitted a guest through through Patreon. And if you are not a Patreon donor, consider becoming one.

1:19.7

You can do it first little as a as a buck a month and it. It's an important part of keeping the

1:25.2

show going. All right. This is from the loves survey filled out by a woman who calls herself

1:32.3

loved alone. She writes, I love connections. People sure, but that's not what I mean. I love how

1:38.4

the brain or mind or consciousness makes connections. When pieces of information and understandings fall

1:44.8

into place to allow the mind to see the bigger picture like a puzzle. The trumpets of aha that

1:52.2

the trumpets out a moment. I suppose Epiphanie's question mark, it does not have to be mental health

1:59.4

understandings, but also in learning a new hobby task or job, even the understanding of a person

2:05.8

or oneself, the click of that connection of a logical understanding has been made and then things

2:13.2

suddenly make sense. Oh, I have goosebumps. I love that one. I love that. That is such

2:23.1

such a great feeling that reprieve of just having a minute of not telling yourself I'm an idiot.

2:32.2

This is an email I got from a person, a ye man and they write hello. I got connected to you

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