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How To Detach Single-ness From Attractiveness

Oversharing

Betches

Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2022

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Resolution season is right around the corner, so Jordana and Naomi start the week with another intention-setting email from a listener who’s looking to find a more healthy narrative about why she’s single. They tell us why being single may not be as connected to attractiveness as you think, and why attraction is more subjective than any of us realize. Then another listener writes in to ask why her husband keeps asking her to do “Dry January” even though she’s made it clear that she doesn’t want to stop drinking for a whole month. Is this a veiled attempt to get her to curb her drinking, or is he simply unwilling to accept that she won’t go along with his every request? The Betchicist scenario involves a marital dispute over relocating to a warmer climate in the Winter, which necessitates lying about their dog being a service animal. Is this really about the animal, or an excuse from someone who doesn’t want to leave town in the first place? Finally, the Triggered scenarios involve a revelation about a friend who cheated, and another about not being allowed to ever be in a bad mood. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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A quick note before we get into the episode.

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Oversharing is a podcast for entertainment purposes only.

0:44.9

It is not a medical podcast and does not constitute medical or psychological advice.

0:49.2

Always seek the advice of your physician or mental health professional.

0:53.6

Hello and welcome back to oversharing.

0:55.8

I'm Tregana Abraham and I am Dr. Naomi Bernstein and we are back.

1:01.4

It's already mid-December.

1:02.9

I believe it.

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The holiday season is in full throttle.

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You know, all the Christmas Hanukkah cheer to be had.

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