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Alright, we're going to do a little bit of advice today. Jennifer says, hi, Matt, I'm married

to a wonderful conservative man and he and I are on the same page and I must everything

and share the same values. We're both in our mid-twenties and getting ready to have kids,

but I have one problem. I'd like to try and solve before we do. My dear husband smokes

weed and I really don't want him to be doing that once we have kids or while we're trying

for that matter because I know smoking can impact fertility. Because of smoke very frequently

a couple of days a week, but it's enough to bother me. I know he used to smoke in his

teen years, but he stopped and didn't smoke for most of the time we were dating and engaged.

So I didn't really think it was a problem before marriage. How should I go about approaching

him about this without potentially causing issues?

There's no way to approach it except to just tell him everything you've told me, the

only issue. He might not want to hear it, but I think it's perfectly valid for you to

raise it, especially if from what you're telling me, when you knew him and you were engaged

and you first got married, he didn't have this weed habit. So he can't say, oh, this

is something that you knew about and now you're switching up on me. So this is a change

that apparently from what I'm getting from this, he has made sense you got married, which

gives you all the more reason to object. And I'd feel the same way about it. I know that

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