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Dear Young Married Couple

How to Deal with Intrusive Thoughts During Sex (ASK episode)

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

5817 Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

We’re back with another ASK episode! These are episodes where we answer YOUR questions.  ♥️ This week, we’re answering a question we received about intrusive thoughts during sex. This is actually quite common! It can be extreme things like someone else’s face flashing into your mind during sex, or the less extreme, like remembering you forgot to turn on the dishwasher.  ♥️ Either way, intrusive thoughts are a distraction from the connection and intimacy you should be experiencing during sex. Does an intrusive thought always have to lead to sin? Tune in as we talk about practical ways to dismiss these thoughts! Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: [email protected] Resources Speak Pipe - Ask us a question! https://www.speakpipe.com/DearYoungMarriedCouple FREE PDF -  10 Ways to Take Your Sex Life to the Next Level https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/sexpectations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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We received recently a very interesting question about having intrusive thoughts while having sex.

0:36.6

So here's the question. On some occasions during

0:39.2

intercourse, I get flashes in my mind of someone else's face. It's not the same person's face.

0:44.4

When it happens, it's usually the face of someone I saw during the day. It makes me feel really bad.

0:49.9

I try to get over it and just focus on my husband and enjoy him, but it makes me feel guilty.

0:54.0

I truly love my husband and would never do anything to hurt him.

0:57.1

Just this happening makes me wonder if there's anything wrong with me or what I could do to

1:01.0

prevent it from happening.

1:02.5

Thank you for reading.

1:04.0

Awesome.

1:04.6

Thank you for sending this question in.

1:06.9

Very good question.

1:08.1

And this is not the first time nor the last time that we'll receive this question.

1:13.1

Here is our thoughts around this.

1:16.9

First of all, this is called an intrusive thought.

1:19.6

This happens to everyone, actually, but maybe with different subjects.

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